Fortunately, for most of us, our conflicts are challenging, but manageable. When the world is in crisis mode, difficulties and differences can become magnified. We find people fighting over items that sometimes have nothing to do with controlling the virus. Small things matter. Fear becomes the norm. Perspectives fade and biases replace reasoned understanding. Kindness exists in smaller doses than is needed.
Peacemakers are critical during these times. The abilities to listen, show understanding, connect (albeit at the required social distance), and show compassion are critical. As I read the news today, it was clear some people want culture and ideology to continue to divide us. I have seen social media posts that demonize each side of the political spectrum. While the news is distorted, it provides something people can gather around and detest that is not the virus. It is easier to hate a person, a party, or a race of people than a microbe.
As peacemakers, we know better. Especially at times like these, we need each other. We need to embrace our similarities, not focus on how we are different. When I speak with friends all over the globe, we are experiencing the same thing. We are all frightened, looking for leadership to get us through this crisis, and hoping for an end to this insanity. We want our lives back. We do not want this “new normal” to become normal. We feel better just talking with friends and those we hold dear. Only then, do we realize we are not alone.
Keeping our perspective is important. Finding a “reframe” for this time when we may be bound by home or other restrictions, can help. I have read how some people are choosing to find this a time for a needed respite, others see it as a time for contemplation and spiritual reflection, and others are focused on treasuring time with family. Whatever your focus, as a peacemaker you can work to support connection, healing, and understanding. We are in this challenge together. Understanding our commonality of experience, unity of purpose, and commitment to a more peaceful future will be the keys to coming through it. We must help people remember that we have each other.